It’s a fact. A phone chat trial leads to better sex in real life. Why you ask? There are a number of reasons and we will explain some of them here, which should motivate you to pick up that phone and start talking dirty!
Phone sex can lead to better sex in bed in a number of ways. One of the first reasons having a vibrant phone sex life will make you better in bed is because you are going to learn a lot about yourself while having it. You are immediately going to learn about what turns you on and what turns you off. If you are having phone sex with a partner that you already are interested in, this will immediately spice things up between the two of you, since she or he will hear what you are saying and incorporate that into your sex life. Having the phone and a little distance between you and your partner may allow you to say things you have a hard time vocalizing in real life.
The same goes for your partner. He or she may say things that they want you to do to them! Even if you are having phone sex with someone you’ve never met and will never meet, it allows you to explore fantasies, desires, wishes and fetishes that you may not have explored in real life yet.
To have great phone sex, you have to be engaging and turn your partner on. They have to buy into the fantasy or scenario you are laying down for it to be erotic. With this being said, phone sex teaches you the art of seduction. You learn about the nuances of flirting, teasing and ultimately control if you are hoping to achieve orgasm together.
Having good phone sex hinges on having good communication between both of you and in this way it makes you a better communicator in your real life endeavors. But having really hot phone sex involves listening just as much as talking. You must be an active listener to understand when to get more naughty or take it to the next level. Obviously these skills are fantastically important when you are having real sex with your partner, so practicing these skills over the phone will only make you a better communicator in real life.
Lastly, if you having phone sex with random people you may learn new techniques to bring to the bedroom! You might find a chick graphically explains how she likes her pussy licked or her nipples played with. So there is a very good chance graphic dirty talk will teach you ways to pleasure your real life lovers the next time you have a real world hook up.
